Have you been in a situation where you have heard certain things about your dreams that made it look like a joke?
You have gotten these awful ideas from family, friends, and loved ones about your dream which has made you consider whether your dream was worth it in the first place.
It isn’t their fault. No one can see the big picture; no one understands what your dreams, passion, and life goals mean to you. You are just being protected from failure but they don’t understand the reward based on the risk of pursuing your dreams.
Here are 19 tips (lies) that people will tell you to make your dream feel like a joke:
1. Someday you can pursue your dreams, but right now you need to get serious and be responsible.
When will that day be? When is the perfect time to pursue your dreams? Remember that you will pass on one day? If you are not sure of the day you will die then how can you be sure of when it would be the right time to pursue your dreams?
Don’t be deceived, the time to pursue your dreams is now
2. You will lose everything if it doesn’t work out
While failure can be disheartening, it doesn’t equate to total loss. Many successful individuals have faced setbacks, yet they recovered, learned valuable lessons, and often pivoted to new opportunities.
Risks are inherent in any endeavor, but they don’t define your entire future. Failure is a part of the journey and can lead to growth and resilience. By managing risks wisely and preparing for contingencies, you can minimize potential losses and build a foundation for future success, regardless of temporary setbacks.
3. This is impossible!
You think it is impossible because common knowledge says it is impossible. Just because it has not been done, does not mean that you can’t achieve it.
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4. What If You Fail? Failing is dangerous.
You have a bad rap about failure. Who blames you? Our Society does not like failure. You have been groomed from a young age to avoid mistakes and you have even been penalized for making mistakes. You have grown with a life program to run away from errors at all cost.
However, the quickest way to succeed is to learn from your mistakes. So It is Ok to make mistakes.
5. You are told that It is way safer to stay at your day job
Is your day job safe? The only job that is safe is the one that you create yourself. This doesn’t mean that you should just quit your job immediately to pursue your dreams but a safe job does not mean that it is better.
6. You need to be “Lucky” to make It
Those who made it out of luck created their luck with determination, success consciousness, a positive mindset, and a drive that did not take note of failure.
You are the writer and can design your success story.
7. This is a lot of hard work. Do you think that you are up to it?
There is nothing that ever came so easy. That is why you need to love what you are doing. Your dreams are going to need you to get dirty. Your goals are going to need your time, skills, and most especially, your patience to grow. So roll your sleeves and get to work.
8. You are not an expert. You are lacking skills
If you think that being an expert means that you must possess all the paper qualifications, guess again. If trying to be an expert has prevented you from pursuing your dreams, then you need to reconsider.
Many entrepreneurs are living the dream and they didn’t initially have the required qualification. (Just check out Bill Gates or Richard Branson) .
To be an expert, you just need have more knowledge about an area or field than your customer; You don’t even have to be No. 1.
There is a chance that you know a lot more about this topic than anyone else. You are an expert. So don’t waste time. Don’t forget to keep Learning….
9. You lack the right resources
You don’t need the right resources to begin the journey. You need to think out of the box to be able to use the resources available to you. If having the right resources were so important, then people with weaknesses would not be able to achieve their dreams.
10. You don’t have any money to take the first step.
Who says you need to save more money before you can take the first step? Is the “I can’t afford it” mentality hampering your dream?
What you need is a plan. You need to sit down and draft a budget. You need to look at the cost of achieving your dream and you need to take little steps.
The important question should be “What steps do I need to take right now, with the resources and money I have right now, that will bring me closer to my goal?”
The phrase “It takes money to make money,” drives me crazy. If you have a good idea or a great deal, and a team behind you, money will find you. Robert Kiyosaki
11. You don’t need any help. You are better on your own. It is a smart thing to do.
No man is an island. The people you hang out with will affect you positively or negatively. If you want to be capable and powerful in achieving your goal, you need to associate yourself with the right people.
12. You are so young/too old
The myth that you’re “too young” or “too old” to achieve your dreams is limiting and untrue. Success knows no age limit. Many young innovators have made groundbreaking changes, just as countless older individuals have pursued new passions or started thriving businesses later in life.
Age is simply a number, not a barrier. What truly matters is your determination, willingness to learn, and drive to push forward. Whether you’re 18 or 80, your journey is unique, and you have the power to create, grow, and succeed at any stage in life. Don’t let age define your potential.
13. It’s tough in this Current Economy
While economic challenges exist, history shows that many have thrived even in tough times. Innovation often flourishes during downturns, with businesses adapting and new opportunities emerging.
People are building successful careers, launching startups, and creating wealth despite economic hurdles. The key lies in resilience, adaptability, and thinking creatively. Challenges don’t eliminate success—they reshape the way it’s achieved.
Instead of focusing on limitations, look for ways to leverage the evolving market. Tough times can offer unique opportunities for growth and success.
14. No one is going to listen to you. People will not support you
.No one will not support you if they don’t believe in you or they don’t understand your dreams but that doesn’t mean you can’t achieve your goals.
Many people never received praise for their dreams and were even deemed unrealistic for their unconventional ideas, yet they still achieved their goals. The key is to learn how to effectively communicate and garner support for your dreams.
Remember, You don’t have to hide or suppress your dreams to make people happy
15. You don’t have the time. You are too busy
There are 24 hours in a day. You do have time unless your time is focused on things that are not important. You are running out of time because you are prioritizing on the things that will not get you to your desired goal.
Stop wasting precious time on things that are goal killers like uninspiring TV Programs and non-empowering activities.
16. You don’t Like People
.It’s normal to encounter people you may not particularly like, and that’s okay. However, achieving your dreams often requires collaboration with others. If your dream can be pursued without involving these individuals, that’s great—go ahead.
But if it’s impossible to avoid working with them, you’ll need to find effective ways to manage these interactions. There are resources available that can guide you on how to handle challenging people and navigate these relationships successfully.
17. There is too much Competition
Is having too much competition bothering you so much that you are afraid to make your dreams a reality?
Well! The best businesses are those that thrive on serious competition. The reason is that you can make your dream or vision stand out.
There is always someone better. However, you just have to go pursue your dreams. You might be overestimating your competition and making yourself small when you are way ahead of the competition with your out-of-the-box ideas.
18. It is Just Too Risky
Life is about taking risks. Even the things you think are safe come with its own risk. There is nothing too risky as long as you are prepared. The worst risk is not pursuing your dreams
Don’t be afraid. Sure your dreams might be risky but the reward is greater than the risk.
19. You don’t Know What you are doing.
Every success story began with a quest that was filled with uncertainty. Fear is a normal thing and does act as a check. These checks and balances are needed to make sure that we don’t get to a point where we think we know it all.
For before a fall comes pride. So it is ok to have an empty cup as long as you don’t leave it empty for too long.
Your Turn
What lies have you been told that made your dream seem as a joke? Please share in the comment section.
